From Emily's marriage and death certificates I know she was born around 1855 to William Grant and Jean or Jane McHardy. The marriage certificate does not state that her parents had died but in the 1861 census she is a lodger with a family called Gordon at Muirside of Melgund, Aberlemno, this is also where she married. I cannot find any trace of her parents in the 1861 census.
By the 1871 census Emily is a servant at Auldbar Castle (close to Aberlemno) as is her future husband Alexander Spence (b. June 1852, Brechin, Angus).
Emily and Alexander married in 1874 (a son was born a year earlier in Perthshire - odd???)
There were the following children:
William b. abt 1873, Prisie, Perthshire
Alexander b. abt 1876, Lunan, Angus
Emily b. abt 1879, Lunan, Angus
Isabella, b. 1882, Montrose, Angus
Ethel b. abt 1888, Montrose, Angus
Robert b. abt 1893, Montrose, Angus
Emily died in 1933 in Montrose.
The problem is I can't find any trace of Emily's birth, her parents marriage or any siblings.
Any ideas would be appreciated!