I've found an ancestor in the 1861 census - George Bateman in Dunipace, Stirling - who was born in "Wales" - wife Lucinda (Woods) born "Ireland". I know George died in 1865 in Scotland, his children were born in Lanarkshire from about 1846 onwards. I've not been able to find a marriage for this pair. The 1861 gave me hope - hah they'll have been married in Wales I thought. But alas, no sign of them. George's death cert shows his parents as James Bateman and Catherine Melbourne - no sign of a marriage for them either - there is a John Bateman and Christiana Milburn but no son George listed. The Informant was George's daughter who was quite a young lass at the time, and her father died in the most horrible circumstances, so perhaps she wasn't thinking straight, or just didn't know her grandparents names.
On IGI I found a George of about the right age born to James Bateman and Catherine Lloyd but I think he may have died in Wales (someone told me they'd seen this on IGI but I haven't been able to get on the site to check it). A glimmer of hope though, is that this family had another son called Isaac - a family name that's been relentlessly passed down the generations.
If anyone has a clue where I could start, I'd be really grateful. Thanks.
Pinkshoes